Number of posts: 243 Age: 67 Location: blackpool Points: 300 Registration date: 2008-10-23
Subject: co-dependency Fri Jan 13, 2012 2:29 pm
how many times have you been co-dependent? the reason may have been it's been 49 51 % one needs to dominate the other needs to be dominated this leads to arguments that get so frustrated
50 50 is the answer if its not this then it will never work at-al when in a relationship with love at the centre both can have a ball if this does not apply to you then you i think are in the minority i am pleased for you and your partner please share how with clarity
i think most of us would love to know so we could try it ourselves write a book about it and place it on the learning shelves unconditional love is the answer found by be in only a few maybe ive been unlucky and this has not been experienced by you
today i can say that i have been cured by that dependency bug i have found living on my own i only need one handle on my mug i wrote this with no thought of offence just sharing my thought but knowing that when we were equal arguing added up to nought
Number of posts: 1799 Points: 1579 Registration date: 2008-10-22
Subject: Re: co-dependency Sat Jan 14, 2012 12:30 am
Jimmy, Wow! I am notin a committed relationship (no fiancee ior wife) but iuf I was I believe I would allow my partner to have equal say. Nice poem. Your friend, David Fox